Unapologetic, Unfiltered, Unf*ckwithable: The Era of You Starts Now
No more guilt. No more waiting. This is what choosing yourself looks like after 40
You know she’s in you, but you’ve forgotten what’s it’s like to BE her.
The version of you who wakes up with purpose.
Who doesn’t wait for permission to feel good.
Who says yes to rest, yes to joy, yes to herself.
She doesn’t apologize for taking a freaking break.
She doesn’t over-explain her boundaries.
She lights the freaking candle, because she is the reason.
And I want you to hear this:
She’s not something made up or out of reach. She’s a decision.
She’s already inside you, ready to lead you to your best juicy life, she’s just waiting for you to grab her hand.
She Was Never Lost, You Were Just Taught to Forget Her
Becoming “her,” the most turned on version of yourself, isn’t about doing or being more.
It’s about burning the old rulebook that wasn’t meant for you anyway.
You were trained to sacrifice. To settle. To wait your turn.
But now it’s your turn.
And if you’ve been feeling tired, numb, or stuck, this is why.
There is nothing wrong with you. You are not failing. You’ve been surviving inside a system that was never built
for you to thrive.
This Is What Choosing Yourself Looks Like
Ask yourself right now:
What would the most lit up and expansive version of myself do today? What would the woman I’m becoming do?
Not next week. Not when the to-do list is done.
Today.
Would she:
Say no without explanation? (Oooh, I love this one.)
Wear the blingy earrings she bought for a special occasion, to the market?
Take a walk, not for steps, but for self-regulation and sanity?
Light the f*cking candle just because she wants to?
Start there.
That’s how she emerges.
That’s how you step into the shoes of the best version of yourself. By choosing YOU, every single time.
Need inspo? Read: Burn The Guilt and Light the F*cking Candle
This Isn’t a Makeover. It’s a F*cking Reclamation.
You’re not “finding yourself.”
You’re remembering who the f*ck you are.
You’re choosing her.
You’re walking away from the guilt, the grind, the performance.
And into the era of YOU where you get to feel good, for no other reason than because you want to.
How to start:
Today, do one thing “she” would do. (The you who is inside, dying to come out.)
Take the nap
Say no to the things and people that drain you.
Light the candle.
Wear the red lipstick.
Take yourself out to dinner.
Whatever it is, make it for you. And make sure it feels good!
This isn’t fluff.
This is radical self-indulgence and I’m here for it!
Ready to Light the Candle for Real?
Ready to prioritize your joy?
This isn’t a challenge.
It’s a reclamation.
It’s a rebellion against a system that doesn’t want women over 40 rested, joyful, or in their power.
It’s a 3-day journey to pleasure, power, and your best freaking life.
Join Light the F*cking Candle: A 3-Day Pleasure Reset , July 1–3 for women who are DONE waiting.
Let’s flip the script on guilt and help you write your own permission slip.
This isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about remembering who the f*ck you are. And guess what?
She’s unapologetic.
She’s unfiltered.
She’s unfuckwithable*.
She’s YOU.
If you’re here for this kind of energy, join my 3-Day Pleasure Reset and then get in my free Facebook Group where you’ll get inspiration and motivation to live your best freaking midlife PLUS a community of other like minded women ready to step into their most vibrant and joyful, turned on self!
Let’s F*cking Go!
